Honestly, the title of the journal explains it all. I am outraged. Yesterday, when I was browsing dA I found a deviation that I liked and clicked on. After also clicking on the author's page, I saw that they had a stamp on their page that I was horribly offended by. I was considering linking it on my journal for everyone to see, but I would rather not because I think that it would be giving the artist too much credit. Anyway, the stamp said something like: "It isn't rape if you yell surprise!" or something along those lines. And then the author justified posting it by saying that it is on t-shirts therefore it is okay and that it is simple entertainment and 'funny.'
As someone who as lived through rape, I couldn't think of a single thing that I found funny about it. I was so offended that I wanted to rant on their deviation, but after reading the deviant's responses to others who share my opinion and did comment, I realized the deviant was getting off on the negative reaction to the stamp and didn't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing she/he had gotten to another person. It was really hard reading some of the positive comments he/she was getting for creating such a 'funny' stamp. Is it really all that much to ask to think of other human beings for once? Is it really all that much to ask to extend genuine common courtesy?
It just really galls me than anyone under any circumstances could or would ever say that rape is okay under any circumstances or for any reason. She actually equated the act itself as to being the same thing as being upset about someone poking her in the arm and said that rape is only bad because society tells us that it is. Clearly, this person is very ignorant and will never truly what it feels like.
I think that it is just horrible that anyone would promote such a degrading and horrific act that takes so much from the victim. I just can't believe people sometimes.
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